Vows

Here’s the vows I read during my christian wedding..

Jay, growing up, the only ‘knowledge of love I had was love from a family’.  Little did I know or was prepared for a love that is tarnished with war one must endure. I still recall the day you came into my life, it was the beginning that would enlighten me to what love should truly mean. Love is not of blind faith, it is not perfect, it is not without its flaws, it is not without its moments, it is not earned but given…in loving you; I’ve learnt not to love in convenience, but adversity. With you, I have learnt that love is of constant change, of never giving up, of continuity of finding yourself and complimenting another. Through you, I have experience love against all odds, love that can conquer any stormy weather, any forging battles and any other dark forces that threaten. In loving you, I have become a stronger person, a person more certain of herself, who does not claim to have perfect love, but only true love that has withstood the test of times. Today marks forever, I will be your shoulder to cry on in times of despair, I will be your companion to share the beautiful moments that life may bring, I will be the mother to bare your children, and the best friend you will grow old with.  I have loved you for the longest time; my love for you will never die.