Last Sun, I attended my best friends wedding, what a grand and beautiful wedding it was. The bride looked absolutely ravishing, the Groom looked equally handsome. The church was set up beautifully with fresh orchid pieces lined up tall along the aisle, there were a four piece quartets playing in the background, and a well dressed up crowd. The reception venue was just spectacular, it was fit for royalty. It was a solemn peaceful dream wedding, exquisite in every scale, one that you’d really wished for.
I’ll just comment on 3 highlights that really stuck to my head.
1. Sounds of Bliss
There we were, the bridal party all lined up symmetrically at the front of the altar, along with the groom we patiently waited for the bride to walk gracefully down the aisle. Then there was this eerie sound we heard from the back, it was so loud, a whaling sound that echoed the room, the sound travelled back and forth. Sideways, up & down like a soccer ball being bounce diagonally across a soccer field. I seriously thought, oh my, we’re about to experience a J
JERICHO
(figurely speaking that is). My eyes widened like I was about to be shot in the head by a spear, but then…quietness surrounded the room. It was like climax that hit to a halt…no more whaling sound, just a picture of the bride walking arm and arm with her mom and dad, sigh - such a moving sight. I don’t think anyone could ever forget this moment, well not the sound of bliss anyway
2. Ditched
As the maid of honour I had a million things on my mind that day, one of them were, has the band eaten? How’s the bride’s dress holding up? Are we on time according to the running sheet? Oh my God my speech? These items were mapped out in my brain, nagging me at every chance it gets. The last thing on my mind was performing a bridal waltz! Then we were called, ‘Bridal Party, please join the couple for the bridal waltz’ AYA, they must be joking right, WRONG. I was last to step down. Let’s get this done as quickly as possible I thought. Well, I was partnered up with the Best Man, the groom’s Bro, for privacy reasons let me hide his name by Mr. Suave. Well, Mr. Suave was yes a bachelor, quite good looking, and all that Jazz. He suggested salsa moves, and I said ‘AA’, as a big NO. Then, just as the song slowly was fading, like a speedy Gonzalez, I said, got to go and ran out of dance floor. It didn’t occur to me that the bridal waltz have not yet finished, I have just left Mr. Suave confused in the dance floor. Bewildered on what to do next, shall he dance by himself, join another couple, walk away. Believe you me this was a funny sight – sorry Mr. Suave.
So to any bachelors attending a wedding – Please always expect the unexpected.
3. Wardrobe Malfunction.
For some unexplained reason, I always avoid trying out a dress before a big occasion. Maybe it is the fear of the dress not fitting properly, which says crash diet, or maybe it’s a simple case of getting a surprise. For whatever it is, I cannot get into that dress!! Well at the wedding, did I get a big SURPRISE! The top half of my outfit seems to keep getting lower and lower, I had to adjust every 2 minutes otherwise I’ll have my whole swollen breast exposed for the whole world to see. It always happens to me, but I never learn my damn lesson, maybe its time to get a breast reduction – NOT! I’ve looked at a half a dozen pics from the night, and all I can see is my tits appear to be hanging out one way or the other. Talk about wardrobe malfunction, thank God for the delete function in digital cameras, they seem to save my day AYA!
Tip for me – Like chocolate, got to try before you buy!
That’s all from me folks.
Happy J
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